Sometimes we get so used to comparing things that we assign “types”.  I dont have a “type” of woman I’m aesthetically attracted to.  They have to be naturally pretty and be pleasant.  Thats it.  Sometimes that means she can be slim. Sometimes that means she can be plus sized. I dont like when people can accept or dont believe you find them beautiful.  You can smile or give someone a compliment and they act like they dont believe you or there is some malicious ulterior motive because typical ” MY type” may not like THEIRS.  That sucks!  I love thick women. Women with curves.  Thats who my eyes naturally gravitate towards.  But i’m a slim muthafucka and 5’10”.  So if theres a woman whos size 12- 16 and 5’9” she may not expect me to like HER, she expects me to like the slim woman instead.  Conversely if I see a thick woman who is pretty sometimes I even assume she wants a big football type dude instead of me.   Same goes for women with natural hair or darker skin, many for some reason dont believe im attracted. It seems society gives us all this insecurity that people  dont like us unless we’re “perfect”.  I noticed ever since I posted pics of julians mom, women who have a similar look started following me on social networks.  Its funny to me.  Its like “oh he likes us so I can follow him he’ll accept me”.  Its so interesting. All I can ask is: Dont overthink us so much. Sure, be guarded as you want about your emotions and how much you let someone in your heart etc. but when a man tells you youre beautiful, believe it, accept it at face value. You dont have to analyze it or second guess it or qualify it as “whats his angle?” Women ARE beautiful to us, without physical prejudice and without allowing a tricky mouthed guy to segue that into a conversation all the time, simply say Thank You, its a confirmation of what u should already know.   I love em all: #skinnychicks #teamcurvy #thickchicks #plussize #models #fullfigured

Sometimes we get so used to comparing things that we assign “types”. I dont have a “type” of woman I’m aesthetically attracted to. They have to be naturally pretty and be pleasant. Thats it. Sometimes that means she can be slim. Sometimes that means she can be plus sized. I dont like when people can accept or dont believe you find them beautiful. You can smile or give someone a compliment and they act like they dont believe you or there is some malicious ulterior motive because typical ” MY type” may not like THEIRS. That sucks! I love thick women. Women with curves. Thats who my eyes naturally gravitate towards. But i’m a slim muthafucka and 5’10”. So if theres a woman whos size 12- 16 and 5’9” she may not expect me to like HER, she expects me to like the slim woman instead. Conversely if I see a thick woman who is pretty sometimes I even assume she wants a big football type dude instead of me. Same goes for women with natural hair or darker skin, many for some reason dont believe im attracted. It seems society gives us all this insecurity that people dont like us unless we’re “perfect”. I noticed ever since I posted pics of julians mom, women who have a similar look started following me on social networks. Its funny to me. Its like “oh he likes us so I can follow him he’ll accept me”. Its so interesting. All I can ask is: Dont overthink us so much. Sure, be guarded as you want about your emotions and how much you let someone in your heart etc. but when a man tells you youre beautiful, believe it, accept it at face value. You dont have to analyze it or second guess it or qualify it as “whats his angle?” Women ARE beautiful to us, without physical prejudice and without allowing a tricky mouthed guy to segue that into a conversation all the time, simply say Thank You, its a confirmation of what u should already know. I love em all: #skinnychicks #teamcurvy #thickchicks #plussize #models #fullfigured

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